Your Loved Ones in Spirit are just as diverse, personable, unique, funny, stubborn, crass and set in their ways as they were when they were alive.
In other words, no one really changes when they move into Spirit - they stay exactly as they are, beautiful and lovely. Sure, they loose some hardness, gain some perspective and become more loving, but other wise, they stay who they are and thank god - it's the reason why you still love them so much!
And when asking for a sign that they are still with you, they are happy to dish out the exact things you need to sense their presence around you. However, there is a whole Smorgasbord buffet of 'accepted and approved' signs to ask for. Things that they can most certainly do, figure out and finagle to get you some evidence of their existence after death.
But, when asking for a sign, most people, ask for one thing,
When you ask for "anything", people get confused. It's like someone asking what you'd like for dinner and you say, "I don't know, I could eat anything'
Often what happens is,
A. Nothing gets made for dinner because there's too much confusion on 'what' to make
B. If it does, it's hardly something to write home about
You could eat anything - but when working with your Loved Ones in Spirit, you have a choice on what that something will be, so why not make it loud and clear?
So, to get the perfect sign, here's what you do:
Step 1. Be Specific About What you Want from the Buffett Table
Walking into the space of asking for a sign from Spirit, is like walking into a Chinese buffet, sitting down and saying to the waitress who brings your water, "I don't know, bring me something from over there I guess". She might ask you to choose from a menu, or, bring you something totally off the mark because she just don't know what it will take to please you!
So, when you walk into a buffet, grab a plate and start pointing out or at least telling others what you are interested in having to eat.
Would you like?
An electrical sign, such as lights flashing, microwaves beeping, fire alarms going off at night?
A message sign, such as a song on the radio, in inspirational quote or message from a friend, or a hand delivered message from a stranger who just so happens to have mediumistic ability?
A visually physical sign such as a coin, a flower, a feather, some kind of wildlife?
A movement sign, such as something being mysteriously moved or misplaced, possibly creating noise?
A noise sound, such as hearing cabinets closing or your name being called?
A visual appearance in a dream or at the foot of your bed?
Which of these signs sounds good to you?
Please choose, one or two or at least a few - just so that your Loved Ones know what you want!
No one wants to disappoint you - so please, provide your Loved Ones with a helping hand in knowing what would make you happiest.
Step 2. Who do you want to give you a sign?
(less important than step one, but still pretty significant in figuring out the type of sign you'll be receiving from your Loved Ones).
Are you looking for a sign from your aunt, mother, father, sister, friend from college or little brother? Or from a Spirit Guide, Angel or Animal spirit?
Just for the sake of the time being and limiting confusion on who it is that's visiting you, simply take a moment and narrow it down - who would you like to visit you and send you a sign of their presence?
Circle a few names and decide who you want your sign from.
Next, consider their personality and the type of sign they would send you if they were alive. Imagine we're talking about your father, did he believe sending coins and flowers was complete crap? (personal example: Mine did). If so, ask him to do something else, like knock on a door or create a loud noise.
Are we talking about your fiance, the one who loved to hug and kiss you? If so, it's likely they prefer to visit you through physical touch and with you sensing their presence, not a third party message or butterfly.
What about your brother? The one who was always joking around and making light of things. Perhaps he's playing some tricks on you, for fun!
Or your sister, the one who, when you were kids, always flushed the toilet when you were showering, making your shower water ice cold. Is it possible she's suddenly changing your shower temperature in the mornings? (It sure is, this is a real example).
If they were alive and you had to guess the type of sign they might fancy to send you, what would it be?
Try to align your 'person' who you'd like the sign from, with the type of sign you are looking for - and you'll likely be right on target!
Have a beautiful day!