Those in Spirit want to communicate with you in the way that has the most meaning, depth and remembrance from you.
The number of possibilities for Spiritual and after death communication is really endless. Proof of your loved ones after life and presence of your Guides and Angels can come in a variety of ways. So often, it seems impossible to know how is a sign a sign, when just about everything could be a sign from Spirit.
To really begin to notice the signs and symbols from your loved ones, you’ll need to find out the preferred way that your Loved ones, Guides and Angels will use to connect with you. And each of us, has a preferred method of communication between ourselves and any other individual.
Our own preferred methods of communication are actually displays of love. Indeed, how would you prefer someone showed their love for you? Do you like messages, acts of service, gifts, quality time or physical touch? What do you prefer as a show of affection and compassion?
Take a moment and consider how you prefer that love is shown to you. This, is the preferred way your loved ones, Guides and Angels will connect with you.
The 4 Languages of Spirit
Messages and Words
One of the ways that your Loved Ones, Guides and Angels want to connect with you is by giving you messages and guidance. If you are someone that loves words of praise, words of affirmation and words of support from those in your life, this is the type of sign you should look out for.
Spirit can send you messages through clairaudience, through the television, through books and newspapers, through music, through signage, through Facebook and through other people. If you are someone who loves to hear words of support and guidance, start keeping an ear out for unique messages from friends, media and from the voices you hear within your own mind.
When asking for a Sign from Spirit, ask for a meaningful song, a written message in print form or a verbal message from a friend, stranger or on an oracle card.
Acts of Service
Do you remember the saying, “Actions speak louder than words?”
In the world of Spirit, there is no truer phrase. Doing things, providing favorable outcomes assisting you in making your life easier, is one of the most under noticed yet most frequent acts of love and signs from your loved ones, guides and angels.
When you need something done, and you need it done flawlessly, there is no better person to ask than someone unbound by limits of time, space or finances - yes, someone in Spirit. Spirit Guides and Angels are commonly opening doorways and pulling strings for their people, as are Fathers and Grandparents in Spirit. Have you ever found a parking spot in a crowded lot or on downtown street, in the pouring rain, and moments before you were begging for a spot to appear? You have your Loved Ones in Spirit to thank for that!
Want something accomplished? Seems impossible or just a huge hassle? Something kind of out of your control? Ask your Spiritual Supporters. They’re on your team,anyway, why not assign a few jobs?
In every society throughout history, gift giving is the universal sign that you love and care for someone. If you care, you give.
And when your loved ones in Spirit pass over, they still want to give you gifts. Gifts for your birthday, gifts for your anniversary, gifts for just because. If gift giving is very important to you, if it is how you know and feel loved. Don’t be ashamed - Spirit wants to give to you, too!
Unexpected discounts at stores and special treats out to eat.
Did a register malfunction right as you were checking out? Was something you really wanted mismarked, and the cashier gave it to you anyway? Did your waitress bring around a special compliment from the chef or a free drink? While they may not be able to buy you something, they can manipulate electricity and the thoughts of florists, waitresses and chefs - to give you extra special deals when you need a boost!
Little things mean a lot, especially if the primary way you feel loved is by receiving a gift. And your loved ones, guides and angels know this about you.
If the primary way you feel love is by spending close time with someone, get ready to learn how to sense the presence of Spirit. With something as meaningful and valuable as quality time, your spiritual friends will likely make a big effort to be noticed by you and be in your presence.
Your loved ones, guides and angels may learn how to appear to you in dreams, create a sensation of their presence that you can feel, such as a touch or goosebumps, or simply show up briefly as a sparkle or flash of light in the air.
While sometimes your loved ones, guides and Angels will stick around for a while, most will show up for just a moment or two, just so that you know they’re still around. It’s about quality presence, not quantity presence.
As you begin to ask yourself which of these four methods make you feel the loved, supported and cared for, choose one or two that primarily speak to you. Then, begin to hone in and focus on these methods of spiritual communication. These are the preferred methods your Guides, Angels and Loved Ones will primarily use to connect with you.
Trust me, they want to connect with you as much as you wish to connect with them. And, they prefer to do so in the way that will have the most meaning and significance to you.
Pay attention to what you value and how you feel loved. Through this, is the most likely way they will be visiting you.