When Do Spirits Stop By?
The 4 Most Common Visitation Times
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After identifying the signs of a spirit visiting you, next is knowing when they visit.
Once you identify when and how your loved ones, angels, or Spirit guardians will likely visit you, you’ll be increasingly more aware and prepared for the next time your loved ones, or your other Spirit friends, want to stop by for a spiritual visitation.
In general, in order for a Spirit to visit you, a great deal of energy must be expended on their end – coming down to the physical realm, shifting their energetic vibration so they can be felt, moving objects or making noise if they can, etc.
Since it takes so much energy for your deceased loved ones and Spirits to visit, they want to make the most of their attempts to connect with you. They want to assure you’re going to notice them, and thus, they tend to choose their visitation times wisely.
To make the most of their visit, your loved ones and your other Spirits have a few preferred times, where connecting with you, would be most noticed.
The 4 Most Common Times To Be Visited
When You're Alone
The #1. And for the longest time, when I was alone was the only time I’d sense Spirit. Mostly, I think it was because I kept my gifts such a secret, that the only time I could talk to them openly, was when I was alone.
Your alone time is one of the only times of day when you are not distracted by other people. With fewer distractions, you're more likely to notice the subtle shift in the presence of another.
Your alone time may be in the evenings or the very early morning.
Spirit may visit in the evening. This is when many of us are winding down for the day, and naturally, unloading all of our distractions.
When are you least distracted? Usually, this is when we're alone, so this is when Spirit will visit. The fewer distractions you have, the clearer your mind is, and the more likely a Spirit might be able to get your attention.
When You're Sleeping/Dreaming
An extension of when you are alone, this one happens in an altered state of consciousness. Spirits can visit us in our dreams or awaken us at night.
One of the theories for why Spirit visits while sleeping is that relaxation, meditation, and rest before bed increases our vibrations, so it's easier to connect.
Another theory of why Spirits visit while we sleep is that Spirits just have no concept of time. They are visiting us always, but we notice them most when all other interference is at a low.
Even if you do share a bed with someone, usually, when you are woken up from asleep, you are doing so as the only one awake in your house. Thus, a loved one may attempt to visit you at night, especially if this is the only time you are calm, and your mind is quiet.
While your loved ones don't always intend to wake you up, occasionally they will, especially if you're a light sleeper. But some Spirits will not wake you up when they visit. Instead, they will connect with you in a visitation dream.
During A Difficult Time In Your Life
You are going through a rough time – a time of transition or crisis, a time or existential reflection, a relationship shift, a period of release and letting go, or time of questioning, your Spirits are around you.
If you lost someone who was your cushion to fall on, your comfort and support, or your shoulder to cry on – your loved one will still visit you to provide you this comfort.
In fact, this is a really common job for grandmothers and romantic partners who are on the Other Side. They will light up the way, and provide you with guidance, tingles, and happy memories, to help you move forward.
During Family Memory Events
Wedding, engagements, births, sporting events, ceremonies, presentations, promotions, buying a house, sending a child off to college, winning an award, freeing yourself from a bad situation, and many others. These are all events that your loved ones do not want to miss.
Concerned that your mother passed just before the birth of your child? Don’t be. She'll be there.
Spirits also visit you when they want to give you guidance when they want to support your path, and during the day while you’re working. In fact, sometimes they just linger, especially if you really need someone around, they do provide company.
So to recap, the four most common times for spirits to visit are:
When you’re alone
When you’re sleeping or dreaming
During difficult times in your life
During memorable family events
These are the four most common times, however, there are also times of days when the veil between the spiritual world and the physical world is thinnest - which can make it easier for you to sense Spirit, and therefore, see them or feel them more than you normally would.
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Last Updated: 2019.07.22
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