When someone close to you dies, it’s devastating.
For many, it’s also the first time they really consider the whole Spirit, Afterlife, possibility of the Other Side thing.
You start to hear things you didn’t hear before, see things out of the corner of your eye that you never used to see before, and sense things, that before the crossing of your Loved One, you can’t ever remember feeling.
Your Loved One wants to get in touch with you.
Depending how close you were and the nature of your soul relationship - it’s likely that neither of you are ready for that bond to end, simply now that one of you has moved to a new home in another realm.
It doesn’t have to end, either - and your Loved Ones can help make that a reality.
When someone close to you dies, especially a soulmate, a parent or a best friend, someone who you would readily consider your Other Half, this person, literally becomes your Other Half - in Spirit.
One of the first things we do in the mediumship development, is meet a bridge person that links you here on Earth to the Other Side, over in Spirit. This individual can be a new Gatekeeper Spirit Guide, a Guardian Angel, or an Animal Guide, and they serve as reference point of trust, continual connection and as your go-to person for any questions, problems or issues that you have interacting with any other individual in Spirit. I consider this spirit-individual, your Spirit World Orientation coach.
They are someone you ideally meet one of the very first times you begin interacting in the Spirit World, and someone you can go to time and time again for help with anything you need while in the Spirit World - protection, guidance, advice, etc. The key here - is this Spirit Individual is there for you as a trustworthy source of information you can rely on when you are unsure about anything at all.
What better person for this job, than someone with whom you already have a foundation of trust?
What better candidate than someone you already know, love and whose communication style you understand?
There is no better Bridge individual than a person you love.
This is why, many psychic mediums start developing their abilities only once they have someone special on the other side they can trust.
And for many, there is really no incentive to build a relationship with Spirit, until you know someone personally. For many, there is no reason to visit France at all, unless your best friend lives there.
Not to worry, though.
Spirit communication is a type of language we can all learn at any age. And while picking up a new language at 40, may be more difficult than when you are 3 years old - it’s made exponentially easier, when you have a friend who speaks fluent French and is readily available to practice with you, answer any questions you may have and remind you when it's time to play the, 'Okay, for the next 2 hours, we only speak French' game.
Consider your Loved One in Spirit, an old best friend, who is now ready and willing (and very excited) to start teaching you French.
Once you learn the language, then, the communication and connection - never has to end.
Amanda Linette Meder