Holidays, anniversaries and birthdays are when we all miss our Loved Ones the most - myself included.
Thankfully, within these special occasions are some of our favorite and most memorable times we can recall with those that we miss the most who are now in Spirit, on the Other Side.
I love the holiday season, you love the holiday season, and guess what - your Loved Ones love the holiday season. It is during this time, where people often recount visits, dreams and the presence of those that they love.
You aren’t making it up.
If your Loved Ones are going to show up during any time, it’s when you most want them there - and when they most want to be there. It’s now.
What are some signs you're going to have some spirit visitations this morning, tomorrow morning or on New Year’s eve?
Let’s go over just a few.
7 Signs your Loved Ones Are Visiting You During The Holidays
1. You are inspired to make their favorite dish, drink or play their favorite music
Your Loved Ones can nudge you and communicate with your clairaudiently or claicognizantly, often heard and mistaken as a thought within your own mind. The inspiration you feel could be simply your own warm heart and desire to reminisce and remember, but it could also be an idea that they gave or nudged you to do.
If it was their idea (or even if it was yours), do it - it’s a good way to include them in the festivities, at least in Spirit!
2. You feel compelled to tell stories about you, them and the things you used to do together
They want to be there as much as you want to be there. One of the reasons your Loved Ones come on down during the holidays is to meet and reconnect with everyone. And those in Spirit, without physical bodies, are without voice boxes. So, there may be stories they wish to retell and connect over - but physically can’t.
Mediums often have a hard time at holidays because of this - so many Loved Ones present wanting to be involved in the chatter - that we often have to tune down our abilities at our own gatherings - because we can’t pay attention to the human conversations, when so many individuals in Spirit also want to be involved in conversation! Allow yourself to be their vessel for sharing. Speak about the things you used to do together - share the stories and include them in the chatter. They’ll likely be right there with you and excited to be a part of it.
I can’t even begin tell you how many individuals I see at celebratory gatherings and family events - it’s generally about as many crossed-over people as there are those in the flesh. And most of them, right there next to their family members in the conversation, wishing to jump in and share.
3. You want to talk about the things they would’ve liked or wanted
It’s likely they who are nudging you to feel even more compelled than normal to talk about what they would have liked. If you normally keep your mouth shut, but over the Holidays you feel like you can’t stop it from coming out, you’re being nudged.
Just say it. It won’t hurt anything.
4. There are major breaks or silences in conversation
If you feel their presence, have a message from someone that needs to be delivered - this is your opening to share it. Likely created with assistance from those in Spirit who want their words to be spoken.
5. You feel a wave of emotion (tears) coming over you out of nowhere
One of the most common things discussed in readings by your Loved Ones is this. A Loved One, usually a parent or a partner, comes through to say,
“I try to visit you, but every time I do, you sense my presence and become emotional. I hate to see you cry, so I have been standing back.”
Even if you don’t think you can sense the presence of your Loved One - you can - we all can. We know what someone feels like, especially when we’ve known then for 30 years or more - we could sense their presence when they stepped into the bedroom with the lights off (when we couldn’t physically see them) then, and we still can now.
Generally, when you sense the presence of your Loved One, the emotion comes because you feel that you’re suddenly missing them so much - but you aren’t missing them - you are sensing them - they are likely standing right there in your energy field. Take a deep breath when the wave of emotion comes. It’s an indicator of their presence.
6. You keep forgetting that they aren’t ‘there’
This happens very frequently right after the loss of someone - you keep forgetting that they aren’t actually there with you.
While many of those who cross over immediately go over into the life review process, some, especially those who died younger or more suddenly than expected, are granted access to come back to Earth to comfort their Loved Ones during especially hard times.
If you find yourself thinking they are there, and forgetting that they are not - it’s likely it’s not your mind playing tricks on you. And don’t worry - your sadness or longing isn’t holding anyone, anywhere or keeping anyone from moving on. If your Loved One comes back to visit you in your grieving, this is their choice, made entirely on their own free will.
There’s plenty of time to take care of all the chores of crossing over. They can always get to it later and be with you now.
7. You SO thought they were sitting at the table or standing behind you, but when you look twice, it was just your ‘imagination’
Recently, I lost a Loved One, and one night I was making dinner in my kitchen and I saw them walk in behind me, I turned around to say, “Oh, Hi!. . .” only to realize I was still alone.
When you ‘see’ someone come in behind you or out of your peripheral, this is what is called seeing Spirit in your mind’s eye or as an apparition. No, not all apparitions look like white, wisps of air - in many cases - they look exactly like the person, pet or individual looked while they were alive.
If you thought you saw your Loved One - you did. Oh yea, and you’re also clairvoyant.
PS. Curious for more signs? Check out this article: