By Amanda Linette Meder, Psychic Medium
If you’ve ever had a mediumship session, or connected with a loved one on the Other Side, you probably already know - your loved ones are watching over you, and come to sessions to provide tips and guidance about your every-day life.
At some point during each session, it can dawn on people - Oh my goodness, my grandmother knows the feelings, dreams, and hopes that I’ve never told anyone. They know my preferences in a romantic partner or my secret resentment for my sister. Is she spying on me? When is she around? How is she knowing this? Has she heard I asked for it or something, if so, how?
Or, you openly talk to Spirit, your guides, your angels or your loved ones in your mind, and you ask them for things, ask them for help with stuff. Then later, the help appears, the problem was solved.
Did they hear you? If so, were they right there with me at the time or what?
The answer is: Yes, they hear you - and they aren’t spying, per se.
Often times, when you, like me, talk to your loved one on the other side, it is because something made you think of them. You have a problem, and you remembered how much of a rational problem solver you mom was, so you start asking, “Mom, if you were still alive, what would you do?”.
Then, you get it. An answer of what you mom would have done or said. Not a coincidence. In those instances, your loved one was there with you, which is why you suddenly thought of them - out of nowhere. Their energy popped into your mind, as to someone who would be useful here. And it was, because, someone useful was there!

In those cases, your loved ones DO hear you.
But they don’t have voice boxes (remember: Spirits don’t have physical bodies), they have to transmute the message to you using your words your thoughts to convey the message. They are using your words as a conduit for their own - because they are unable to speak them out loud.
Other times (most of the time, actually) those in Spirit, hear your request from a distance, through a channel, a cord, up to the Divine Light.
Imagine that you, as a human, have all of the modern technologies of human life - including a telephone. We ALL have a telephone of some kind, and we can call anyone and at any time, if we would like. Some of us call and dial out to talk more than others, but we all, at some point, make a call on the telephone.
In this way, because you are Spirit inside, you have all of the conveniences of Spirit, too!
Including a direct line from within yourself, to the realm of Divine Light.
Anytime to send a request to Spirit, from deep within your own Spirit, it travels your channel of Light, back to the Realm of Light.
We all have tethers back to the Divine.
Like Buoys in the ocean, with a rope that connects them to the Ocean Floor, so they don’t get completely lost at Sea. We are all Buoys, with ropes connecting us to the safety of the Divine Source.
Once your thought, your request, your wish, your hope, your desire, or your want is sent, to ‘arrive’ in the Light Realm, it arrives like a letter in the mail box.
Clairaudience, the ability to hear Spirit, also works this way. You receive a message, in your "mailbox" (internally, usually), and can listen to it, and deliver the message, if necessary.
One of your Guides, Angels, or Loved Ones checks the mail, reads the letter, and brings it back to your entire team of Spiritual supporters. They all decide, together, who is the best one, at that time, to deliver this Message and honor this request.
In this way, one of your Spiritual support ‘staff’ does hear your message, but all of your ancestors on the Other Side do, too. Simply because one Spirit hears your message and follows through, does not mean that others weren’t also involved in the successful outcome of your request.
To ensure that your ‘request’, travels up the phone line, and reaches Spirit, it is best to be ‘in tune’ with your own Spirit, as you ask for something from your loved ones. In this way, you know that your wishes and desires are truly connected to your Spiritual self - that those manifestations, are aligned with the ‘right’ channel to reach the Realm of Light. To hear spirit, you must also internally tune in and connect.
In other words, to connect with Spirit, align with your Spirit.
With love,
Amanda