I have personal physical world experiences with those who have passed through suicide.
As a psychic medium, I've had the opportunity to talk with many of the deceased loved ones, who have died in suicide, and are now on the Other side, existing as Spirit.
Over the course of doing mediumship readings and connecting with loved ones in Spirit who have crossed from suicide, addiction and overdose, I’ve learned some truths that have made me feel very sad.
Every Spirit I have spoken who has died this way, has told me the same thing and it's this:
I regretted it the moment after I did it, but it was already too late.
Yes. Each and every Spirit person who has come forward and the readee has later validated that this person committed suicide, has come back in remorse, regret and yes, acknowledging their life path, but also saying,
I wish I didn’t do it.
In many cases, after they share their story and why they did it, they will also share, in detail, about what has happened since the’ve crossed-over. And by and large, while the stories vary from individual to individual, I have found there are three main scenarios that happen to a person on the other side, after they die this way.
For the purposes of this article, we are including both drug overdose and addiction here.
What Happens to the Spirit After Death
There are the few possible routes for a Spirit who has died in suicide to take once they reach the Other Side.
option #3. They may not cross-over right away
A person who has committed suicide may not cross-over right away, due to what I mentioned above - feelings of immediate regret and wanting to come back. Many people who take their own life in a very blatant way, often want to apologize to their loved ones first and get that off their chest, before fully leaving the earth plane.
Once they say what they need to say and/or are made aware they cannot come back into a body/exist in the way they had before, a person who has taken their own life is ready to cross-over.
You can actually learn to help your loved one cross over, and it's a very healing experience. I detail the process in my Transitions eBook, if you'd like to try it yourself.
option #2. They may go to a resting place first
The resting place been shown to me as looking like a garden, a womb or a vacant space where this person is all alone. It is not punishment here.
This is the place where people go to contemplate their experiences, come to terms with their actions, and to release any heavy emotions they are carrying (perhaps the same ones that lead to their death in the first place), before fully crossing.
A person may go here first, the resting place, before fully going into the Light. They can stay here for any period of time from just a second to years - all depends on their life path. Sadly, they generally cannot communicate with anyone on Earth during their stay here.
option #1. They cross-over and turn their life around
I have seen people move immediately into the Afterlife, turn around, and become Spirit Guides for people who are contemplating the same. Kind of like Angels.
They council, help uplift, watch over, and do their best to guide those just like them, into a new direction in life.
Option #1 is absolutely my favorite outcome, but all, eventually work out in time.
Which of these situations may apply to your loved one will depend on their life path and the unique circumstances involved in their situation.
Each person has a uniquely intimate experience both living here on Earth and living in the Spirit world, so it is impossible for me to predict or even say for sure what will happen to a loved one of yours outside of a reading. Each Spirit and each situation is different.
To know the specific Afterlife course of your friend or family member, you’d have to find out from the Spirit themselves.
Want to learn more about what happens in readings with those who have died via suicide?
Check out this article by psychic medium Ashley Allaway.
Amanda Linette Meder