10 Dos and Don'ts of Delivering Messages from Spirit
mediumship tips 101
Amanda Linette Meder
When it comes to delivering messages from Spirit, either in the formal platform of a reading or in the casual setting of a friend group or development circle, we all want to make sure we are creating, facilitating and providing the best and clearest receptions possible.
Here are some essential dos and don’ts that can help you provide better messages, in a clearer way without compromising on your values, and all while providing a quality service.
1. Do Trust Your Spirits
Your Guides won't lie to you.
If you receive a message from Spirit, there is a reason. Pay attention to cues, synchronistic events and maintain keen awareness for additional messages coming through. If during a reading, make sure to say repeat images, because those won't go away until you -
2. Don’t Just Blurt It Out
Pause and try to frame the sensitive stuff.
Speaking the truth isn’t always about blurting it out, whatever it is, regardless of time or place with total raw vulnerability and emotion. To fully honor your message, pause to plan out not what you're going to say, but how you're going to say it, before it comes out of your mouth. Spirit will provide you with the message, but it’s up to the courier (you), on how that message is ultimately delivered.
3. Do Find the Right Time
Timing is critical. Some messages are time sensitive. When you wait weeks or even months to deliver them, they lose their strength and relevance. Conversely, some message will be delivered to you early, so you have time to plan and shape their optimal delivery. Make sure you know the difference.
4. Don’t Let Emotions Take Over
Emotions can cloud your channel and create bias in an otherwise clearly received message. Take some time to get into the right state of mind for delivery, before you deliver anything at all. And if you get emotional during a message delivery, take a moment, regain your composure, and then get back into it once you’ve cleared the tears.
5. Do Ask Your Spirits for Help
From trouble identifying a Spirit in your space to what’s the best way to deal with a particular client, don’t forget to tune in and ask your guides what’s up. They are always willing to provide pointers on how and if you can get additional information.
6. Don’t Force It
If someone has made it clear to you that they do not want a message from Spirit, do not force the message. Let it be. In order for a message to be fully received, a person has to be open to hearing it, anyway. Otherwise, the message will be a waste of breath and time.
7. Do Listen for Cues
Pay attention to all of your senses when you are receiving (and delivering) information from Spirit. Your Guides will give you sensations, words and sounds to guide you on when to keep going, when to stop and when to start moving things in another direction.
8. Don’t Apologize just because Someone Doesn’t Get It yet
If a message delivery is not going well, don’t apologize, back down or automatically default to assuming you were wrong. Many people will deny truthful messages, especially if incriminating, to self-preserve or protect. When you apologize, you inadvertently give permission to reject a message that they needed to be hearing. Stand by your truth.
9. Do Look For Another Way
If someone isn’t getting it, ask for the message to be rephrased in another way - and then, they try to explain the point with another metaphor, analogy or message. Taking an alternate road up the same mountain can often make a world of a difference.
10. Do Keep It Private
No matter what happens, all messages need to be 100% confidential. If you choose to share the message in the pursuit of education (on your blog, on the radio, in a video) make sure you remove all personal and telling details from the example.
Everything that we learn in our readings can also serve as messages for us, which is why Debra Katz, famous psychic and clairvoyance, believes that by providing readings, you're putting yourself on the fastest track to soul growth possible, as well as providing wonderful resources to those who need them most. I just so happen to agree with her.
For more on Psychic Ethics and Etiquette, please check out:
A few of the articles below
The Intuitive Professionals Kit which discusses ethical concerns
The Member Archives Business Development Section which goes over ethical concerns in great detail along with a free webinar class on Business and Ethics when you sign-up
In addition, when you join The Membership Program we go over ethics every month in our member meeting and in our private social group, The Spirit Lounge. Learn more about becoming a member here.
Amanda Linette Meder
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