How To Cut Cords With Someone Quite Easily
Release Your Ties
By Amanda Linette Meder
Can't stop thinking about someone? Find yourself in the middle of doing nothing when the image and the energy of another person suddenly floods your space? Need to disconnect? It may be time to cut some cords . . .
When you connect with another person and they connect with you, it can activate an energetic connection between the two of you. This is a type of connection that can last lifetimes.
There are two main types of energetic cords that can occur between people:
- Heart cords - those that are created in moments of an emotional letdown, frustration, and loss. These are typically long-standing cords between lovers, mothers, and those with your children.
- Stomach cords - cords most likely created from power struggle scenarios, such as those at work, in traffic, or through situations involving envy, jealousy, or character attack. These cords typically form in work-based relationships, or in momentary relationships with passing strangers, such as those at customer service counters, in traffic, in line at the store, by someone viewing your website and getting envious and so on.
The easiest of the two cords to identify is the heart cord. Because of how long standing it is and due to its nature of being formed by very close bonds, it’s the most painful and noticeable when it starts to act up.
That’s right - you don’t and won’t necessarily need to cut all the cords you could possibly have with people, because some of the cords you have are beneficial in nature - such as the healthy, loving cords to your angels, guides, ancestors, spouse, children, etc.
This type of cord can share energy and transmit a high frequency of communication. When the cord is healthy, it can create a vibrant, energetic source exchange but when the cord is unhealthy, it can often lead to feeling controlled or drained of energy (source: Forever Conscious).
For this reason, typically, the only type of cord you would want to remove is a negative cord or as Melanie at Ask-Angels calls it, a cord of attachment. These are cords that are unhealthy for you to maintain and keep.
When I think of cords, I try not to think of a person with octopus tentacles whipping them out whomever without regard, but rather, a tree with leaves that periodically fall.
Also, as you grow, you’ll want to:
Completely End Some Relationships
Disassociate with Lower Vibrations
Prevent Yourself from Repeating the Same Lesson
And Release Karmic Ties with People You No Longer Need in your Life
- From Chicks with Spiritual Gifts, Article: Cutting Cords Energetically
And releasing your cords will help you do all of this.
So if you think of your energy body as growing, renewing and regenerating every seven years, and with each cycle and mini-cycle in between, the cords that need to shed will naturally fall away on their own.
Read: Most cords that have come to the end of their cycle will drop naturally from your energy body, when it is time, without any intervention from you.
However, there are some cords, usually cords that are held in place by others, and these may need your assistance in order to release them fully.
So to fully release these cords, typically those formed from a long term stubborn bond or from a single, heated interaction, here’s what you do:
How to Remove A Stubborn Cord in 3 Easy Steps
#1 First Identify the Location of the Cord
To remove the thorn, we first have to know where it is. There are all types of cords, but most are connected to certain chakras.
So to determine the location of the cord, use your clairsentience to tell you what hurts or consider what chakra could be affected by the cord. Some people feel physical pains associated with cords.
For example, if it’s the third chakra, your stomach might hurt, or you may notice you’re affected by only feeling more insecure than usual lately.
#2 Disentangle Your Energy from the Cord Source Person
All cords have an origin point, and it is usually a singular person or entity.
Identify your source person. Scan your close relationships, people with whom you’ve been in recent arguments or tiffs, ex-boyfriends who have been popping back up and so on. The first feeling that you get that you’ve found your IT, you’ve found it - so start there.
Once you identified the source and there may be more than one - if there is, just repeat this next step for each person - call all your energy back from this person by doing these two things:
Disengage from them completely. Unfollow all social accounts, empty emails, remove and release belongs, put all photos away. Make sure to give away, hide or bury, any special gifts or charms they’ve given you.
Then, disentangle your spiritual body from theirs.
Visualize them holding a ball of your energy in their hands and watch a stream of it coming back to you, directly pouring into the affected chakra. So again, if this is a solar plexus cord, visualize them holding a ball of yellow light in their hands, and that light slowly starting to slip away like sand, returning to your stomach.
Continue this visualization 'til it's complete.
#3. Do Your Final Chop
Once the last stream of light has come back to you, scan your energy body with your third eye - you can do this in meditation - and see if you are holding onto any balls of light of their energy.
If you are, return it to them, using the same energy process above, but reverse. It's normal to see this.
Then visualize a large sheet of steel metal coming down between you and they and slamming to the ground. Hear the sound it makes. This etheric layer will chop any last threads. Then watch as three more sheets come down and around encasing you in a box.
Breathe, inhale, and exhale, and slowly see your spirit self-turning around, and exiting the box through a rear door.
Letting a cord linger for longer than you know it should can definitely hamper your energy work, if you are engaged in any. This is because once a cord of attachment starts to fester and die, it can begin to leak, clouding up your entire energy field with that vibration.
Depending on the vibration of the cord you want to remove, anger, jealousy, resentment, this can affect your readings, clients, and your perception of their issues, and so on.
This is an etheric meditation healing that you try on your own, it works on the energetic plane, and it works quite well. Give it a try.
Meditation Ending Note: The reason we end the meditation with you escaping from the box is to symbolize that you are moving beyond the cord and person, who can choose to do whatever they want after that. Some may need to mourn the box you were once in for them.
Extra Tips: If you want, to soften the release you could send them Angel Light or a stream of Healing Energy but keeping in mind: this could reactivate the cord. To add an extra boost of effectiveness to this meditation, I also call down Archangel Michael and put an electric blue cage around my entire energy field. Like a shark cage.
In no time at all, cord cutting is something you'll be doing naturally and teaching others the same technique you used here today.
Amanda Linette Meder
Other Articles You May Enjoy:
- Snippity Snap: More on How To Cut Cords (Starting Strong Now)
- 20 Practical Tips for Protecting Your Energy (Natural New Age Mum)
- A Quick Guide to Cutting Cords of Attachment with your Angels (Ask-Angels)
- More Gentle loving Ways For Releasing Energy Cords (Soul Connection)
- How To Cut Energetic Cords With Archangel Michael (Nikki Boruch)
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Last Updated: 09 Mar 2017