You can call on your Angels, your Spirit Guides, your Ascended Masters, your Deities, your Archangels and even your deceased Loved Ones for help with anything your heart desires.

You can ask those in Spirit for assistance in solving just about any problem - from finding a parking spot to finding the best doctor to cure an illness to helping you find a soulmate.

Spirits, especially those who specifically are meant to work and assist you while on this Earth, are loving, giving, compassionate and endlessly working around the clock to assist you with just about anything you need to have a successful life on this Earth learning the lessons you need to learn and becoming the person you are meant to become.

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The key to having a beneficial relationship with Spirit is just like any relationship at all.

To work with Spirit and have a healthy bond, there needs to be an element of reciprocity.

Reciprocity.

Reciprocity refers to responding to a positive action with another positive action, rewarding kind actions. As a social construct, reciprocity means that in response to friendly actions, people are frequently much nicer and much more cooperative.

Those in Spirit that work with you, often your Guides, Angels and Loved Ones, seek your cooperation and your hand in the help of creating the ultimate bounty in your life.

Most of the time, all Spirit wants in return for their work is a simple thank you.

Any sign of gratitude that you can offer is the most common request. And everyone, Spirit included, wants to feel appreciated. Thankfully, when your Spirit helpers feel your gratitude, they’ll often work harder and more joyfully on your behalf.

Many of your Spiritual supporters, such as your Guides and Angels, have chosen to guide you in this lifetime because their purpose for existing in the Spirit World as your guide is similar to your purpose for existing in the physical world today.

You share similar goals with your Spirits.

If you ask your Spirit Guide for help healing an illness and they assist you, perhaps ask them if there is anything you can do in return to assist them.

It could be that your Spirit Guide may wish for you to pass on the good deed, or ask you to teach what you learned to others, so that they too, may have and develop the same benefits that you have now.

The idea behind having a reciprocal relationship with your Spirit friends is that the more positive actions you pass in between yourself and those in Spirit, the more you acknowledge, send thank yous and recognition for the work of Spirit in your life, the more positive things that those in Spirit will assist you with.

And this is only natural.

The more appreciated one feels, the more work they’ll do on your behalf.

So, will Spirit heal and fix all of your problems, so long as you ask and show gratitude?

Usually, yes.

But remember, it’s a two way street.

A relationship with Spirit is a partnership between two individuals. When it comes to fixing any problem together as a cooperative team - both parties have to do the work. If there is a problem that you need solving in your life, your friends in Spirit, will always work tirelessly to help you fix it - but you have to work, too.

After all, it is your life.

Need something done with Spirit’s help?

Ask what you can do to chip in, too,

And together, you’ll come to a solution.

With love,

Amanda