6 Essential Tips for Finding Your Soulmate
My significant other is my soulmate and my best friend and just an all around fun and goofy guy that I like to hang out with.
We met just weeks after I publicly announced my psychic business, and more than two years after I experienced one of the most devastating break-ups of my life.
In those two years prior to meeting him, I was completely single and alone. I lived in a Bachelorette pad, pursued my dreams, and figured out who I was - all the while, wallowing about not having someone who I could at least enjoy all of my fun, new experiences with.
Since I’ve found my soulmate and I regularly consult people on how to meet theirs -
I wanted to offer these tips to you on how to really, actually, for real, I'm serious, meet your soul mate.
6 Psychic Tips to Find Your Soulmate
don’t prove why you are lovable to anyone
If someone loves you, they love you.
If you find yourself convincing your partner why you are a good partner - chances are it’s not you that has the issue, it’s them. If they can’t see your beauty that’s a red flag. You need to find someone who does.
realize you are given ‘bad’ partners for a reason
We learn what we want in life, primarily by learning what we don’t want - first.
We learn by experiencing the contrast of what we want.
Having a string of poor partners doesn’t mean you’re bad at finding the right one or a failure at relationships (been there) - it could simply mean that you needed to identify all the things you didn’t want first, so that when the right one DOES come along - you have your checklist all ready to go and your soulmate is more easily spotted.
Look at who resolves the fight, to determine if you're with the right person
Are you always offering the first olive branch of peace? I was, too.
Always being the first to make-up is a tell-tale sign the relationship is imbalanced and you are giving far more than you are actually receiving.
If your partner routinely waits for you to do the mending, it is time to move along.
look for equality in a mate
Love is about and equal balance of giving and receiving. All circumstances may not be equal, but overtime, the amount that you are receiving from your partner should be equal to how much you give.
Always helping your partner out with money while they sit on the couch?
Continually offering the creative ideas for their business, while no input or interest is offered on your own endeavors?
Finding your soulmate is about locating the person who balances you out - gives where you need to receive and receives where you need to give. If you’re doing it all - get out.
to find your soulmate, do some soul searching
Your soulmate is the person who is a match to your truest self.
Are you living in alignment with who that person is? Or are you working a job you hate and pretending to be a person you’re not?
That’s what I was doing before I met my significant other. It wasn’t until I took a cold hard look at who I was and realized I didn’t know that person, that I truly began my journey to meet my real soulmate.
Want to meet the person who matches your soul? Start finding out who you are as a soul, and as you unpeel the layers, you align closer and closer to the date of actually meet him/her.
ask the cards to stay on track
One of the things I have found that helps, is consulting the cards.
Buy an Oracle Deck that can be used to connect you to Divine Guidance at any time. (this one is my favorite).
Check-in on a weekly basis on what you need to be doing to move closer and closer to meeting your soulmate - you can stay on track with your soul path.
Working with Cards (even playfully) can help keep you in alignment with your true mission - finding the one who loves you back.
When it finally came time for me to meet him, I had done a weekly card reading for myself and for the first time ever - I pulled the soulmate card.
In disbelief, I obsessively pulled cards every day that week - and each time - the soulmate card appeared.
And then three days later, I met my guy.