Is Your Loved One is Crossed Over?
The majority of people who die immediately cross over into the Light.
This ‘Light’ is otherwise known as Heaven, the After-Life, Source, Universal Oneness, with God and so on.
When someone dies, they leave their physical body and in that moment or immediately before, a sunburst of Light appears. This Light acts as the doorway to the Otherside. In it, loved ones and guides of the person appear to take their hand and escort them to the Spirit World.
not everyone who dies immediately crosses over
Some people who pass away are confused. They don’t believe in the Afterlife, thus, when they are presented with ‘an Afterlife scenario,’ they feel they are still (or must be) dreaming. Instead of walking to the Light and to their loved ones, they may walk somewhere else - to the nearest bar, to a relative’s home or they simply hang near the location of their body for a while.
This is just one potential scenario.
There are many reasons as to why someone doesn’t go to the Light right away
Whatever the scenario, in any case, the Light soon fades and their Loved Ones leave.
When this happens, the person then stays bound to the Earth and they become what is called a Ghost or an Earthbound Spirit.
And while periodically, the Light channel comes back and this person’s Loved Ones try again, this cycle can last for years - without some sort of intervention.
You can help
You, as a surviving Loved One and familiar face to this person, can intervene and help your family member, friend or acquaintance cross over.
How to Tell Someone Isn’t Crossed
When a deceased person doesn’t cross over, they often hang around the people they knew.
If your Loved Ones visitations feel anxious, nervous, angry or worried - chances are, this person hasn’t left Earth yet.
If you are having bad dreams, getting bad feelings about them, or have concerns about it - it’s likely your Loved One is still here.
If you feel your Loved One is continuously around (or a close family member or friend says so) and they rarely, if ever leave, this is a sign they aren’t crossed.
If someone surviving takes on idiosyncrasies or habits of the deceased, this is a sign said Loved One is with this person and has not left earth.
When someone has crossed over, they can and will visit, but their visitations feel light, positive, caring and playful.
Sometimes, it can be hard to tell based on your own reaction to the visiting Spirit - especially if you are the type who gets afraid/nervous around anything unfamiliar. If this is you, calm down, take a deep breath and reevaluate the situation.
If you believe someone has not crossed, it is proper etiquette to share the truth of this information if it would be in everyone’s highest and greatest good and to actually help them cross over.
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