Updated 2021.10.13

4 tips for doing what’s right for you -

In my work with Spirit, one of the main guiding points of readings has been encouraging humans to focus on themselves, and their own happiness.

When you look at things from a higher perspective, you often focus on breaking ties with what no longer works or is no longer fun, and doing the right thing for you. 

Freeing up your energy field of things that no longer work is a form of self-care, and it requires an honest look at our lives. 

Thankfully, on your spiritual journey, you may have had some space take that honest look.  

Self-care and inner work have come up a lot recently, and doing what's right for you is part of honoring your soul path and a significant part of self-care.  

When you honor your soul, you simultaneously permit others to do this too, so there's no guilt in doing what's right for you - ever. 

In the past couple of years, self-nurturing has become a theme, and I've noticed a lot of people are following their intuition on exactly how to make changes right for them. 

On an intuitive path, it’s often all about union with the divine and clear seeing; when you seek that, you naturally start to gravitate towards a life more in alignment and right for you. 

As we progress in our understanding of Earth to more of a consciousness-perspective, when one takes care of themselves, it signals the ‘okayness’ for another to do that.

The emotion of guilt, when making spiritually-guided changes for self-wellness, can be triggered when we move away from something, in favor of moving towards something else. 

Usually, what we are moving away from is something toxic, and towards something more beneficial.  

When you remove a thorn, you sometimes will feel it more during the process. Then once it's out, it's done. 

Likewise, when you move away from something vibrationally, you may feel it as it goes. Still, once it leaves your energy field, it's out. 

So, a great way to honor doing what's right for you is simply by taking a deep breath and saying goodbye, then focusing on where you are moving closer.  

Below, I will go over four ways to let go of the guilt you feel in doing what's right for you. 

This way, you can experience the good feeling of making an empowered, nourishing choice.

4 Ways To Release The Guilt Of Doing What's Right For You

1. Listen to the messages of the ancestors or recently departed

One of the most significant messages of those who have transitioned and come back is that the key to life is to focus more on yourself and what truly makes you happy. It makes for a more fulfilling life.

Though, so many times, we hold onto things due to a feeling of obligation. 

What if, your letting go of something in favor of something else releases another person of something that wasn't a good fit for them? 

Many times, the messages of those on the other side are to take time for joy, love, and beauty. This often means letting go of things that were not that, to create a void that joy, love, and beauty can fill. 

When we let go of dead weight, our intention will usually fill that void, and thus, happiness can enter. Happiness and love and identifying the places where those are is the essence of discovering the meaning of life. 

2. Call on Archangel Ariel for prosperity and abundance

Archangel Ariel is the angel of prosperity and abundance. She also works with the Solar Plexus Chakra and the Golden Energy. 

She boosts any energy she works with to the feeling of pure bliss and confidence, radiating like the Sun.

When you call on her, she can fill any space in your aura with positive, happy energy.

When you work with her energy, lower energy emotions such as guilt can't stay in your energy field for long. 

It can help to visualize symbols of Archangel Ariel's golden light, which also stands for strength, beaming from your aura, at your Stomach, or Solar Plexus area.

Call upon her for when something that's no longer serving you falls away, so you can ascend to joy, and into that process, more quickly. 

Ariel can pull your energy towards the good almost immediately, so your focus shifts to doing what is right for you and how good it feels.  

3. Raise your energy 

You can raise your energy using music, colors, meditation, visualization, sunlight, fragrance, or through any sensory stimuli that creates a sense of peace. 

For letting go of guilt, I find Sacral Chakra Clearing Meditations to be helpful. 

My favorite chakra meditations right now are from Meditative Mind. If you're in The Member Center, check out the Sacral Chakra Meditation in The Member Meditation Room. 

Often on a spiritual plane, guilt occurs when we don't want to hurt someone. Still, we are thinking about making a change that honors our highest self and the direction in our lives that will deliver the most joy. 

When we experience guilt, it assumes that anyone else connected to the situation is not also interested in ascending to their highest self.  

Most people are interested in doing what's right for them, too, and any non-aligned bonds that exist don't work for either party. 

Since human bonds that are mutually beneficial thrive best, when you are making a change that's right for you, it's a change that will be right for all.

When you make a choice that's right for you, you step towards a life of unconditionally loving yourself in making that choice. 

A soul's unconditional love for itself is one of the essential qualities on Earth that creates a sense of security and peace.  

When you raise your energy, you consciously decide that you feeling good is the most important thing, which is a choice towards unconditional love, so therefore, good.

4. Call forward an Animal Spirit Guide

Animal Spirit Energies are very supportive of guiding us towards what will be the most nourishing and away from what isn't. 

In other words, they can tap you into your primal energies, where you ascend above emotion and act at the level of your Highest Self.

The Highest Self seeks the best, and so do those in the Animal Kingdom. 

Calling forward an Animal Guide can promote transcending the emotion of guilt, and seeing it as something unnecessary. When you choose what is right for you, you decide what is right for all parties involved.

I like Dolphin Spirit Guides for lifting the mood because they are very playful and encourage gentleness as situations change. 

So to recap, four things to release guilt of doing what's right for you

#1

Listen to the messages of the ancestors or deceased loved ones about self-care

#2

Call on Archangel Ariel for prosperity and abundance in good feeling emotions

#3

Raise your energy to the level where you know you are worthy of unconditional love

#4

Call forward a Dolphin Spirit Guide or any Animal Guide that helps you honor moving towards rewarding situations for you, and away from those that aren't

One final helpful tip in moving towards what's right for you is that knowing everyone has their spirit team, so others will be guided toward what is right for them, as well.  

Doing what's right for you, ascends you into a life of unconditional love, which you deserve to experience in this lifetime.

When you release guilt, you also forgive and love the real you. 

You direct unconditional love back on yourself, which is the emotion where all are their most beautiful self. 

Imagine what the world would look like if everyone unconditionally loved themselves and their choices, and all aligned to their highest self.

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