Amanda Linette Meder

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When Will I Meet My Soulmate?

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Updated 2020.09.06

When I went to my very first mediumship reading, this was the question I wanted to answer. It's the most commonly asked questions in readings, right up there next to finances.

There are many variations on the question about on soulmates:

  • Can you tell me anything about love?

  • Umm, something about my love life?

  • What about this guy at work?

Most soulmate questions involve the when aspect of meeting your soulmate. When anyone wants answers about their soulmate, it's primarily rooted around the same inquiry:

When and how can I meet someone who loves and accepts me unconditionally, for exactly who I am at this moment, without judgment or fear?

Before we go any further, I want to take a moment to say that, right now, at this very moment, some has and does likely love you, exactly as you are.

This person's love may be shrouded in the things that prevent them from showing it to you, You may already know that someone loves you, and it also may not be in the way you want to be loved.

The soulmate relationship is a relationship where love equality is matched. So even if you have people that love you in your life, if it's not open love or not being sent the way you or they expect, your soul may still seek an equal match, and this is the soulmate.

spirit guides often suggest these turning up the volume on two things to manifest your soulmate

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investing in yourself

Find out what you need to feel loved and accepted unconditionally within yourself. We'll give you the person who is capable of loving you unconditionally in this way. Follow something you love, and love follows you.

This is the message time and time again. Sometimes people showcase their love to you in new ways as you evolve, revealing new love where there once wasn't, basically creating opportunities to meet soulmates from out of nowhere.

Take one step today to personally do something you love and follow a new goal. Investing in yourself also amplifies your aura, making it easier for soulmate partners to sense where you are and find you.

flaunting it and confidence

Highlight and own your best features, even going so far as showing them off, will attract your soulmate.

Yes, in some sense, doing what birds do. In other words, flaunting it out there, making eye contact, and being outgoing will all draw the attention, waking up a potential sleeping soulmate.

Making upgrades to your physical appearance can help tremendously, which for some, is investing in health or beauty in themselves. It's about more than hygiene. People who show off their soul qualities through style better reflect their authentic selves, attract soulmates more easily.

Take one step this week to upgrade your health, appearance, or confidence levels and get out there. This can be as simple as buying a favorite snack, or updating your beauty routine then participating in a conversation.

A soulmate is a helper on your soul's journey

A soul mate is any person, romantic or otherwise, who is brought into your life to:

  • Open your heart

  • Assist you in your soulful growth and development

  • Bring you to reaching a new stage of loving yourself and others

As you think about this definition, you may realize you have more than one soulmate in your life.

Not all of your soulmates, also called soul teachers, are meant to be your life partner in romantic love.

They are healers and teachers who help your soul heal and release patterns and fears that prevent you from loving fully, and they can show up as friends, pets, or colleagues. 

Many of your soul teachers come into your life at certain times and assist you in opening your heart and soul, many times, facilitated by teaching. Then, they leave. Some soulmate relationships are temporary in this lifetime.

This is entirely natural, as yes, there will be other soul mates for you to meet.

The movement of different soulmates in and out of your life

Think of yourself as a disciple in pursuit of truth. You will meet many people on your journey, including long-term traveling partners.

Your soul teacher's job, remember, is to assist you in learning the lessons necessary for you to experience and receive love in a higher capacity. You overcome fear, jealousy, resentment, anger, expectation, bitterness, insecurities, competitiveness, materialism, greed, and more, with soulmates.

The goal of soulmate relationships is to open to greater love.

The key for you in finding this person is first is to love and accept yourself unconditionally. Then to get out there and flaunt it so you can see each other.

Soulmate Finding. Photo of pink roses in dim light by Alex Blăjan on Unsplash with title overlay - When Will I Meet My Soulmate?

So when will you meet your soulmate?

We can sense when we're about to experience a life-changing event, even if our logical minds don't register it. 

So the majority of people will start to sense a soulmate is close and lingering around before they meet. You may have dreams of meeting your soulmate before they appear. You may see lots of repeating numbers representing new starts and opportunities in the weeks leading up to the meeting.

If you're wondering how to tell when you're about to meet your soulmate, know this:

Usually, if you are thinking about meeting your soulmate, one is near and within reach. You're often meeting them within a month or two.

The meeting of a soulmate includes many variables. It also comprises the guided steps of at least one other person, likely many. Meaning, it's an orchestrated event, and you will want to give it time to unfold beautifully.

From here, prime things on your end, follow the steps above and pay attention to how you feel to guide you.

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