When Will I Meet My Soulmate?
When I went to my very first mediumship reading, this was the question I wanted answered, and it's the most commonly asked questions in readings, right up there next to finances.
There are many variations on the question about on soulmates:
Can you tell me anything about love?
Umm, something about my love life?
What about this guy at work?
Most soulmate questions involve frustration surrounding the when aspect of meeting your soulmate, and when anyone wants answers about your soul mate, it's primarily rooted around the same inquiry:
When and how can I meet someone who loves and accepts me unconditionally, for exactly who I am at this moment, without judgment or fear?
Before we go any further, I want to take a moment to say that, right now, at this very moment some has and does likely love you, exactly as you are.
This person's love may be shrouded in the very thing that prevents them from showing it to you - fear. You may already know that someone loves you, and it also may not in the way you want to be loved.
The soulmate is a relationship where love equality is matched so even if you have people that love you in your life, if it’s not open love or not being sent the way you or they expect, your soul may still seek an equal match and this is the soulmate.
To meet your soulmate, people's spirits these two things:
Find out what you need to feel loved and accepted unconditionally within yourself, and we’ll give you the person who is capable of loving you unconditionally in this way. Follow something you love and the love follows you. This is the message time and time again. Sometimes people showcase their love to you in new ways as you evolve, revealing new love where there once wasn’t, basically creating opportunities to meet soulmates from out of nowhere.
Take one step today to personally do something you love and follow a new goal.
Highlight and own your best features, even going so far as showing them off, will attract your soulmate.
Yes, in some sense, doing what birds do, and in other words, flaunting it out there, making eye contact, being outgoing - this will all draw the attention, waking up a potential sleeping soulmate. Making upgrades to your physical appearance can help tremendously, which for some is investing in health or beauty, in themselves. People who invest in themselves are an inspiration and better reflect their authentic selves, attracting soulmates more easily.
Take one step this week to upgrade your health, appearance or confidence levels and get out there. This can be as simple as participating in a conversation.
dealing with other people meeting their soulmates first
At this point though, you may be asking yourself, wait one second, my one friend Nancy is an emotional nightmare, and she has met her soul mate.
What is going on here? Where’s my soulmate? I’m ready now. I need support now.
This brings up to the definition of what a soulmate is.
A Soulmate is a helper on your soul's journey
A soul mate is any person, romantic or otherwise, who is brought into your life to open your heart, assist you in your soulful growth and development, and bring you to reaching a new stage of loving yourself and others.
As you think about this definition, you may realize you have more than one soulmate.
Not all of your soul mates (whom I’m now referring to as ‘soul teachers’) are meant to be your life partner in romantic love. They are healers and teachers that assist your soul in healing and releasing of patterns and fears that prevent you from loving fully. Many of your soul teachers come into your life at certain times and assist you in opening your heart and soul, many times, facilitated by teaching. Then, they leave. This is entirely natural, as yes, there will be other soul mates for you to meet.
The movement of different soulmates in and out of your life
Think of yourself as a disciple in pursuit of truth and you will meet many on your journey, including long-term traveling partners.
Occasionally, your guides and Angels will bring you your life partner early on, and the two of you weather hardships and storms together.
Other times, your guides and angels feel that it is better for you to learn how to love yourself and weather the storms alone - so that upon meeting your soul teacher for life, you are strong enough to experience and understand the lessons that they will bring to you.
While many soul teacher relationships are romantic, you may have non-romantic soul teachers who are children or nieces, mothers and fathers, friends and coworkers - some of which may be complicated relationships for you to deal with.
Your soul teacher’s job, remember, is to assist you in learning the lessons necessary for you to experience and receive love in a higher capacity. To do this, you learn to overcome fear, jealousy, resentment, anger, expectation, bitterness, insecurities, competitiveness, materialism, greed, and more.
So now you’re ready to meet the one who loves and accepts you unconditionally, without fear or judgment - a long-term companion soulmate.
This is your life partner ~ and you may have more than one.
The key for you in finding this person is first, is to love and accept yourself unconditionally. Then to get out there and flaunt it so you can see each other.
When you do this, you will learn what your standards are, what you will tolerate and what you will not tolerate. You learn what the love is that you deserve and you know how to spot when this is not present. You’ll know how to walk away from those that do love you - but perhaps don't know how to enjoy your love without fear - and how to be okay with this decision. You’ll learn that perhaps, at this stage, you are fully aware of how to love and accept someone unconditionally and that you, soul teacher, are someone else’s lesson of overcoming fear. However, your job is not to force change, your job, as a soul teacher, is to do just that - to teach, accept and love unconditionally - without judgment.
So when will you meet your soulmate?
The meeting of a soulmate includes more than one variable, and it also comprises the guided steps of at least one other person, likely many. Meaning, it's an orchestrated event. All you can do from here is to prime your end, follow the steps above, and pay attention to how you feel.
There is research that shows that we can physiologically sense when we're about to experience a life-changing event, even if our minds don't register it. So the majority of people will start to sense a soulmate is close and lingering around before they meet. This can cause an adrenaline rush, pacing or fear - meditation will help. In this post, I discuss how you can use prediction tools to identify ways or steps to take to meet your soulmate. For more information on soulmates, also check out the articles below.
Amanda Linette Meder
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Last Updated: 4 Dec 2018