Handling A Boyfriend With Negative Energy
I found your homepage while trying to understand and find something about the heavy feeling I get in my body when I am with the man I love and when he texts me.
Today I got more aware of that feeling, when he sent me a message. That heavy feeling felt as an attack - especially on the heart area. I don't know what it is, but it is keeping us apart and I was wondering whether it is one of those "bad spirits" trying to mess our lives up and would it be possible to find out what it is, how, and how to get rid of it?
He carries a lot of negative energy on him, and I might have some as well from my past. However, I know that is something beyond and I tried to many things to get rid of it. It appears usually in the stomach and heart area.
I tried to search on your homepage some kind of remedy, but couldn't find it. I was wondering whether you might have a piece of advise for me.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Thanks for writing, you may be able to understand why I technically can't give private psychic consult via email, but thankfully, it appears from your letter, you already know the answer!
When he contacts you, this sounds like this energy is being sent to you, from him, with each exchange, and you are feeling it. This is normal and it happens with all people when we communicate, though it's more intensity felt if you are a medium or an empath (one is a spirit sensitive in one plane, one is a spirit sensitive in the other), and it's only called an attack when it's energy that we're affected by adversely.
A flower called by any other name...
unless it's a weed.
Anyway, this energy transfer is generally good because it helps us connect to others, but it's no different than transferring bacteria with someone when shaking hands with them, and it explains why some checkers where gloves when handling a lot of money! Any it explains why professional psychics pay so much attention to cord cutting and energy clearing in their practices.
Think of it like tossing balls back and forth, each time you communicate with someone carrying negative energy, a little rubs off on you. It could also be an attachment as you say. By some estimates, 80% of the population has had an attachment at some point.
Either way, it's a good idea to clear your energy and de-cord after each interaction (I talk more about how to do this yourself in this article. But if you need help with cord cutting, know that many intuitives offer cord cutting as a professional service, see the Practitioner Directory for resources on that.
If it continues to happen and he gives you permission and you're on good terms, you can also try clearing his energy just as you clear yours. It's like washing your husband's clothes, likewise, psychics sometimes clear their man's energy, too!
Always ask permission, of course, before trying anything like this and then, if he says no, well... I guess you have another answer.
Many psychics will tell you that you can never clear and heal someone else's energy, nor should you try, but we could all use a helping hand sometimes. Of course, don't do it if it's a pattern, then, you'd want to consider rewriting the karma there. But once and a while -
But if your partner allows it, helping to clear his or her energy with permission is always worth a shot. It takes no more time than offering to rub his or her back, neck, or hands when they've gotten sore and this is something you'd do gladly do to help a person you love physically heal, and completing a bit of complimentary energy work on your partner, is really nothing more than that.
Amanda Linette Meder
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