A relationship with your Spirit Guides, Angels and Loved Ones is like any relationship at all.
It’s built on mutual friendship, companionship, helpfulness and a sharing of guidance and kinship. Through our relationships with those on Earth, such as with our living friends, family and mentors, we regularly receive guidance which we can use to help us make decisions on our own lives.
Ideally, advice and guidance is given when asked. And those that we love, both enjoy seeing us happy and they enjoy seeing the time, effort and energy they spent giving and providing you with guidance is well spent when you then heed that advice and improve your life.
But - people tend to stop giving and offering their input when they see that their guidance, when asked for it and they see their guidance is not taken into consideration.
Overtime, when you ignore advice from those who you ask for it from, you may find that while people still love and support you, they stop offering their opinion when they continually see it’s not valued.
A Relationship with Spirit is the Same
If you receive continual guidance from Spirit and do not follow that guidance, your Spirit Guides, Angels and Loved Ones will not be angry with you, but, they may stop providing you with it.
What if you do follow the guidance?
When you ask for guidance from your spiritual family (your Guides, Angels and Loved Ones), and you follow the guidance routinely, you’ll begin to receive more and more helpful information, the more and more you listen to it.
But whatever you decide, make sure to treat the guidance from Spirit the way you treat guidance from your living friends, family and mentors - take it into consideration, express gratitude for the offering of help, and then make your own decision - whatever decision feels the best to you.
Remember, your opinion is just as valuable as the suggestions made by any other individual - even if they are in Spirit.
If you do decide to go your own way, simply make sure to express your gratitude.
When you ignore the signs and messages from your Spirit Guides or Angels, the signs and communication you receive for them, may reduce in frequency or stop completely.
When you heed the messages and guidance, you will begin to receive communication from Spirit more frequently.
Everyone responds positively when they are listened to - and Spirit is just the same!