One of the most common things that psychic mediums talk about is the idea of life lessons.
This idea is such that you are a soul on this Earth in a physical body, here to learn lessons to advance your soul’s development from a state of fear to a state of unconditional love.
We have many lifetimes in which our soul is learning these lessons and in each life, we are advancing farther and farther along the scale from fear to love.
Finally, in our last life, we achieve a state of full, unconditional love and freedom from fear, limitations or feelings like jealousy, anger, and betrayal.
We love fully and without boundary at the completion of our lessons.
This is the basic idea behind life lessons.
The idea is that your Spirit Guides and Guardian Angels assist you in Spirit, while you are down on Earth learning these essential lessons. They are your Spiritual support team back at mission control. Think of yourself as the astronaut off in a strange world of wonder and exploration, and your Spirit Guides as the engineers and scientists back at NASA ground control. This is basically what is happening.
They provide guidance to you from your Spirit home, while you put on a space suit and navigate, explore and learn out in the great unknown.
How do you primarily learn these life lessons, in your astronaut suit?
Our hardest won lessons are learned through our most intimate bonds with others on this earth - families, partners, friends, foes, and coworkers who bring us insights, challenges, or hardships.
These are the people of your soul group.
Your soul group consists of other individuals who are learning the same lessons as you, all connected to each other, incarnating with you lifetime after lifetime in different roles, relationships and places in your life, as they help you learn your lessons through complex relationships and you help them learn their lessons through your relationship to them.
The bond between you and your soul group transcends time. It transcends lifetimes. It’s full of history, past issues, and drama, so much so, that likely, you have the most dynamic (often, troublesome) relationships with those in your soul group.
Someone in your soul group is called a soul mate.
Soul groups include members of your own family.
This weekend, as I was meeting with another psychic medium and teacher, Ashley Searles, of Ashley Lindsay Searles Mediumship
She was explained to me her philosophy on why we often have the hardest relationships with family members.
Why are relationships with family members the hardest?
Ashley explained that, just as I know, as you know, all families seem to have a ‘thing.’
A plague, a problem, an issue, that permeates the family at many levels. In many families, this is illness or addiction. In others, it’s a core problem, such as a lack of communication, or for me, the ability to see spirits.
This 'thing' is the family lesson.
This is one of the lessons that everyone in your soul group is trying to learn about and understand in their own way. Every soul group has something that they are all learning together, in a variety of ways from a variety of different angles.
Otherwise, there wouldn’t be such a thing as soul groups at all!
To heal this lesson for the group, she suggested you begin with yourself by identifying what the soul lesson is.
You can connect with your Loved Ones in Spirit, your Guides, and your Angels through mediumship to find out what the lesson is and how to heal the lesson within yourself.
From there, from your healing, you can heal the collective energy - in past, present and future - for all those who have come before you, who are with you now, and for those in your future.
This is why Ashley believes that receiving a reading, a connection to Spirit, is actually an essential thread to the complete healing of the soul.
By starting to heal the family issue within yourself and by connecting with others your soul group in Spirit who have come before you, you will become more aware of the issue and so will those closest to you.
The healing work you do for you, also heals your entire soul group. Everyone is intricately connected.
When you connect with your ancestors through mediumship, you can begin to learn about and heal the ancestral karma within your family. Healing and resolving wounds, trauma and pain deep within yourself and hidden in the family line.
To begin healing your ancestral karma, soul lessons, and learn about the emotional threads running through your family or soul group, book a session with Ashley.
She works with clients at any distance and her speciality is the healing of your soul group, starting with you.